87 prompts
Help me give back. Causes I care about: [list] Skills I can offer: [list] Time available: [hours per month] Location: [city] Suggest types of volunteering that match (in person, skilled, remote), how to find and evaluate organisations, questions to ask before committing, and a plan to start this month.
Find meaningful ways to contribute your time and skills to causes you care about.
Help me write a letter to my future self in [1 / 5 / 10] years. Where I am now: [life, feelings, challenges] Hopes and fears: [details] What I want to remember: [details] Ask me a few reflective questions first, then help me draft the letter in my voice, with questions for my future self and a commitment I'm making to…
Write a meaningful letter to yourself one, five or ten years from now.
You are a supportive coach (not a therapist). What triggers my anger: [situations] What I usually do: [reaction] What I'd like to do instead: [goal] Teach me: early warning signs, in-the-moment calming techniques, how to take a break respectfully, how to express anger constructively, and a reflection exercise afterwar…
Calm down when you feel angry and respond in a way you won't regret.
You are a relationship communication coach (not a therapist). Topic to discuss: [e.g. chores, money, time together, family] What I feel and need: [details] How past conversations have gone: [details] Help me: choose a good time, write a gentle opening, use 'I' statements, listen to their side, brainstorm solutions tog…
Navigate a sensitive topic with your partner calmly, with a plan for listening and finding solutions together.
Help me apologise. What happened: [details] Who I hurt and how: [details] My relationship with them: [details] Format: [in person / message / letter] Write an apology that names what I did, acknowledges the impact, takes responsibility without excuses, explains how I'll make it right or change, and doesn't demand forg…
Write a genuine apology that takes responsibility and repairs trust, without excuses.
You are an emotional intelligence coach. Where I'd like to grow: [details] A recent situation I handled poorly: [describe] Explain the main components of emotional intelligence, help me reflect on the situation, and create a 30-day practice plan with daily exercises for each component.
Strengthen self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy and social skills with daily practice.
You are a supportive resilience coach. The setback: [what happened] How I'm feeling: [details] What I can still control: [details] Help me: acknowledge the feelings, separate facts from stories I'm telling myself, extract lessons, reconnect with my goals, and create small next steps for this week. Be kind but practica…
Process a disappointment, learn from it and move forward with a clear plan.
You are a thoughtful coach helping me with a big decision. The decision: [describe] Options: [list] What matters most to me: [values] Fears: [details] Ask me clarifying questions one at a time, then help me: list pros and cons, consider best/worst/most likely outcomes, apply a 10-10-10 test (10 minutes, 10 months, 10…
Think through a major life decision (moving, career, relationships, education) with structure and honesty.
Guide me through a core values exercise. 1. Ask me about peak experiences, times I felt frustrated or angry, and people I admire (one question at a time) 2. From my answers, suggest 10 possible values 3. Help me narrow down to my top 5 with definitions in my own words 4. Show how to use them for a current decision: [d…
Identify the values that matter most to you and use them to make better decisions.
Help me reframe a negative thought. This is for self-reflection, not therapy. Situation: [what happened] Automatic thought: [what I told myself] Emotion and intensity (0–10): [details] Walk me through: identifying the thinking pattern (e.g. catastrophising, mind reading), evidence for and against the thought, a more b…
Challenge unhelpful thoughts with a structured reframing exercise inspired by cognitive techniques.
You are a communication coach. Situation: [where my boundary is being crossed] The person: [relationship] What I need: [my limit] What I'm afraid will happen: [fear] Help me define the boundary clearly, write a calm script to communicate it, prepare responses to pushback, decide on a consequence if it's crossed again,…
Know your limits and communicate them clearly and kindly at work, with family or with friends.
You are a travel planner helping me plan a bucket-list trip. Dream trip: [describe] When I'd like to go: [timeframe] Current savings and monthly saving ability: [amounts] Constraints: [work leave, family] Create: a realistic itinerary outline, best season, estimated budget range, a savings plan, a booking timeline (12…
Turn a dream trip into a realistic plan with timing, savings goals and steps to make it happen.